Friend of yours dating
Dear 4-Way, I just broke up with my girlfriend a few months ago.Honestly, the relationship had been over for a while, so by the time the breakup actually went down, it was pretty friendly; we still talk all the time.Eventually, you’ll lose on both counts: your ex as a friend, and her friend as a potential girlfriend.Going out with this girl is insensitive strategically stupid.There are, of course, probably a few women in the world who really wouldn’t care, and maybe your ex is one of those women. Swim in a different dating pool if you really value a genuine friendship with this woman.The gay man’s perspective: Darren Maddox First of all, if she’s interested in you, let her ask you out!But don’t fool yourself into thinking there isn’t more at stake here than just asking out the friend of a friend.
(What kind of friend says she’s interested in her friend’s ex, anyway? The straight woman’s perspective: Rebecca Brown For God’s sake, man, have you been awake, alive, or attentive on this planet—like EVER?
Before you decide whether or not you should give him a chance, see what our relationship gurus and other collegiettes have to say about dating your best guy friend. Since you already know your guy’s interests, the two of you can jump into more serious conversations early on.